Jesse Zmuda shared their story and experiences with us recently and you can find our conversation below.
Jesse, really appreciate you sharing your stories and insights with us. The world would have so much more understanding and empathy if we all were a bit more open about our stories and how they have helped shaped our journey and worldview. Letās jump in with a fun one: What is a normal day like for you right now?
People often ask me what a ānormalā day looks like as a florist, but truthfully, no two days are exactly alike! Thatās part of what I love most about this work.
I usually start my day by checking messages and orders that came in overnight. Our every day dried flower orders are packed and prepped early so they can be delivered or shipped as early as possible. Iāll also review my wedding and event calendar to make sure timelines, design notes, and client communications are in place. Coffee in hand, this is when I map out the dayās priorities, then head to my studio.
Some days Iām hands-on, playing with color palettes and textures while designing new dried arrangements for the website. On other days, itās all about event preparation, shopping for vases and supplies, and assembling wedding pieces.
As the day winds down, I like to tidy my design space and glance at whatās on the schedule for tomorrow. Evenings often spark creativity, allowing me to photograph new arrangements or update my website. After that, itās all about dinner, a glass of wine, and enjoying time with my family.
Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
Flowers have been woven into my life for over 25 years. One of my very first jobs was in a flower shop, and from that moment on, I was hooked on the creativity and beauty of floral design. But my path hasnāt been a straight line. Along the way, I also worked in the restaurant industry, which eventually led me to open my own bar and restaurant in 2009. Iāve always had that entrepreneurial drive, building something from the ground up has always excited me, whether it was cocktails or centerpieces. By 2016, I found myself pulled back into florals, this time starting my own wedding floral design business. Event design quickly became something I loved weddings, corporate events, or any milestone celebrations. Itās always special to play a role in creating those unforgettable moments.
In 2020, I launched Backbone Floral, where I focus on dried florals for everyday orders as well as weddings and events. Somewhere along the way, I really fell in love with dried flowersā¦they last, theyāre versatile, and they let me create arrangements that bring joy for years! And while dried florals are at the heart of what I do now, I still design with fresh flowers for larger eventsā¦itās the best of both worlds. In January 2025, I transitioned from running a storefront to working out of a private design studio. The shift has allowed me to focus fully on my craft and dedicate more energy to design rather than retail operations.
Appreciate your sharing that. Letās talk about your life, growing up and some of topics and learnings around that. What did you believe about yourself as a child that you no longer believe?
When I was younger, I thought you had to pick one career path and stick with it for life. But over the years, Iāve learned that itās okay to evolve and reinvent yourself as many times as you want. Iāve gone from restaurant owner to wedding florist, with side adventures in web design and Airbnb host. Iāve learned that I do better with variety, and Iām grateful to have had the chance to explore different paths. I enjoy being flexible and taking on different roles, which has allowed me to grow in many areas
If you could say one kind thing to your younger self, what would it be?
Iād tell my younger self: Itās okay to start over. Leaving the restaurant world for floral and event design felt scary at first, but each new beginning opened doors I never expected. Every time Iāve started over, Iāve learned more about myself and what truly makes me happy. Iāve realized that new beginnings arenāt failures but chances to grow and do something even better.
Alright, so if you are open to it, letās explore some philosophical questions that touch on your values and worldview. What would your closest friends say really matters to you?
I think my friends would say that my daughter matters most to me. Sheās the heart behind everything I do and truly the inspiration for starting Backbone. The name itself is about strength and perseverance, qualities I want to model for her and also qualities sheās given me. Sheās the reason I push through the challenges of running a business, and she reminds me daily why I chose this path.
Before we go, weād love to hear your thoughts on some longer-run, legacy type questions. If you knew you had 10 years left, what would you stop doing immediately?
If I knew I had 10 years left, I would stop letting fear and worry take up so much space in my life. Thatās something Iāve struggled with for as long as I can remember. Instead, Iād pour my whole heart into living, saying yes to more experiences, seeing the world, and being fully present with the people I love.
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